Finally, a Moment to Breathe

Yes, I know it has been slightly over a month since my last update. It seemed like I could never get the time to update the blog. It was one thing after another. Either the kids, the house, Magical Moments, the dog or some other crisis. During all of the chaos, by the time I was at the end of the day, I was too tired to think about blogging or what to say. All I wanted was sleep! So please forgive me.

The house is coming along. Here is the transition of the basement family room/kitchen into my office and family room. I know that when this is completed it will be a huge improvement over what we had. Sheryl tell me it is like having a child. A pain while you are going through it but worth the joy in the end.

Personal Photograph of the basement before renovations
Personal Photograph of the basement during renovations
Personal Photograph of the basement during renovations
Personal Photograph of the basement after renovations

First "Free" Weekend

I can’t believe I have a “free” weekend. No weddings, No meetings, Nothing! Wedding season is finally over. While I love weddings, I do need a break to be able to recharge my creative batteries. I never want to get to the point where I dread going to “another” wedding. That would be like visiting Disney World and not being thrilled to be there.

Yesterday was Black Friday. If you were here in Chicago, you know the weather was absolutely gorgeous! It was sunny with the temps in the low to mid 60’s. There was a slight breeze. Most likely the last nice day until Spring. I decided that since it was such a beautiful day and everybody would be at the malls, then nobody would be at the zoo.

Both Meghan and Mathew were downstairs watching TV. I got Michah ready, loaded the diaper bag and made his bottles for the day. Next, I packed our drinks and Zoo bottles up. I put everything in the car. No only did Meghan and Mathew have no idea what I was doing, they were still dressed in their pajamas! I put Michah into his car seat. Finally I called Meghan and Mathew upstairs.

They were reluctant to come but I told them I had something important to tell them. Suddenly Meghan realized Michah and I were ready to go somewhere. With a puzzled look on her face she wanted to know where I was going. I replied, “Michah and I are leaving for the Zoo in 10 minutes. You can go with us but you need to be ready when we leave.” I set the timer for 10 minutes. I was amazed at how fast those two kids could move. They were ready in 9 minutes 30 seconds. They went potty and got themselves dressed in the allocated time. It just proved to me that when motivated they can move. On a school day, try telling me you can’t get dressed!

When we got to the zoo, I discovered, I was right! The parking lot was nearly empty. We had a great day.

Personal Photograph from Brookfield Zoo

Personal Photos taken at the Brookfield Zoo
Leopard enjoying the nice weather.

Personal Photograph from Brookfield Zoo
I saw this in the Fish house and took a quick shot. It actually turned out better than I thought it would. Kind of looks like a spotlight.

Personal Photos taken at the Brookfield Zoo
Just a close up view of the Zebra.

Outpouring of Support

By now you all know Sheryl and I are expecting our third child any day now. At our last Dr.’s appointment, the Dr. said our son was measuring about 2 weeks ahead of schedule. It is very likely he will be born before his due date of August 7. Mathew followed the same growth pattern and was also born early. This news was not a big surprise to me. The Dr. wants Sheryl to complete 37 weeks of pregnancy before the baby is born. That would be Monday July 17. It basically means the baby could arrive at any moment now.

Meanwhile, I am scheduled to photograph Michelle and Ryan’s wedding on Saturday. The photographer who had previously told me he would be my backup, decided to take another booking. I was panicked. If I have a backup photographer, the baby will wait. With my luck, without a backup available, it is 100% certain my new son will decide to arrive at the worst possible time, on Saturday during the wedding!

I put the word out via several of my wedding photography networks. I received many replies from photographers. Some were available and others were not but they were calling their photographer friends on my behalf to find somebody to assist me. What an outpouring of support! This is one of the benefits I receive as a member of my professional associations. While you hope to never need the help of your fellow photographers, it is nice to know they are there when you are in a bind.

During the week, I have been busy working on several projects. I completed the first draft of Maureen and Jason’s wedding album. They are going to have a great heirloom to show their kids and grand kids about the day they got married.

Collage of wedding photos as seen in the album
Wedding Photo collage for Maureen and Jason's Wedding Album
Collage of wedding photgraphs as seen in the wedding album

On Sunday, I photographed the engagement session for Cheryl and Mark. They are getting married on September 9. We had a lot of fun at Twin Lakes in Palatine during their engagement session. It was a chance to get to know these folks a little better. Mark has a great sense of humor and I can’t wait to join them on their wedding day.

Cheryl and Mark's Engagement Photo taken at Twin Lakes

Next, as a special gift for Meghan’s Kindergarten teacher, I created a 22 page book chronicling Meghan’s first year of school in photos. I started at the first day of school and followed her through the year. We concluded on report card day. Here are some of spreads from Miss Sullivan’s remembrance book.

Event photo collage for an album
Album collage with event photographs
Album photo collage with photos taken at Brookfield Zoo

Mother’s Day

Once again it is Mother’s day. The day when dads do all the work and moms get to rest. Well, rest as much as the kids will let her. I tried to let her sleep late this morning but Mathew was in our bedroom earlier than normal, 6:00 AM. Somehow, Sheryl convinced him to go back to sleep. Then Meghan arrived. She too went back to bed until her alarm went off at 8:10 for Sunday School.

I took her to Sunday school and then we were off to have brunch with the Milwaukee half of our family. One of the best things about being a professional photographer is having a ready supply of gifts available. Both Moms and Grandmas love new photos of the kids. Over the last couple of days, I took some new photos of Meghan and Mathew to give to Sheryl and her Mom as Mother’s day gifts. Here are the photos:

Personal Photograph
Personal Photograph of the kids

As you can expect the gifts were warmly received. Don’t the kids look so sweet when they are almost asleep or sleeping? I put Sheryl’s in the hall frames when she was out and she was surprised when she saw them. Meanwhile, I wrapped my mother-in-law’s photos in a box for her to open at brunch. I also gave everybody wallet sized prints so they could show everybody.

On a sad note, this is the second Mother’s day since my mom passed away. There are still times, like today, when she’s especially missed. I’m sorry Mathew never really got a chance to meet her and the baby we’re expecting will never get to know her. We’ve decide to honor my mom by naming our son (expected arrival 8/7/6) after my mom. Now we just need to find a name. Any suggestions?

I’ve also been working on a new promotional slide show for Magical Moments. It can be viewed at http://www.photodex.com/sharing/viewshow.html?fl=2593303&alb=0. Just so you know, you may be asked to install the Photodex Presenter Plug-in. It’s ok to do so. The show runs about 10 minutes. Take a look and let me know what you think.

Brookfield Zoo with my kids

Even though I have a residential studio and gallery, I enjoy the occasional opportunity to spend time with the kids. Most days I steal a couple of minutes here and there to play with them. But, today, I spent the whole afternoon with my family at the Brookfield Zoo. Despite the overcast skies, it was a beautiful day. It was warm enough to walk around in shorts and a t-shirt. Here are some scenes from our zoo trip.

Personal Photos taken at the Brookfield Zoo
There was one giraffe who I think was playing hide and seek.
Personal Photos taken at the Brookfield Zoo
He didn’t do such a good job.

Personal Photos taken at the Brookfield Zoo
I just like the zebras!

Personal Photograph from Brookfield Zoo
The baby goose under a parents watchful eye.

Personal Photograph from Brookfield Zoo
The wolves look almost like dogs it is hard to remember they are wild animals until…
Personal Photograph from Brookfield Zoo

Now a week from Friday, I’ll be back at the zoo as a chaperone for Meghan’s class field trip.

Sunset

Door County Sunset “Daddy come here! Look at the sunset!” is often heard in the early evening hours. There are times when I’m returning from a shoot, a client meeting or a family errand, notice an exceptional sunset and call home to have Meghan share it with me. I’m not sure how this tradition began but we’ve been doing it for years.

This is a special time I share with my daughter, Meghan. When she yells the sun is setting, I try to drop whatever I’m doing and spend a couple of minutes with her watching the sunset. I really enjoy the couple of minutes we spend together. It is a chance to see the wonder of the world through the eyes of a child. Here is a photo of tonight’s sunset from Meghan’s bedroom window.

Door County SunsetOne of my favorite sunsets I spent with Meghan was a couple of years ago. I think Meghan was almost 4 and Mathew was about 10 months old. Our family along with my in-laws had gone to Door County for a long weekend. There was one evening we were along the shores of the lake. It might have been at Sister Bay. It was quite peaceful, Meghan was exploring the shore under the watchful eye of her parents. Mathew was too young to get into trouble. Anyway there was a perfect sunset to cap off a perfect evening. That’s Meghan’s silhouette. She ran into my picture just as I snapped the shutter. I loved this picture so much, I used it as my desktop image. A couple of minutes later it was time to leave and put the kids to bed.