Whack-a-Mole

Ever seen the “Whack-a-Mole” arcade game. The idea is to hit the little guy on the head before he runs back into his hole. As soon as you hit one of the moles, another one pops up from another hole. It seems like you are fighting a never ending battle. At least in that game, the time ends the game and you collect your coupons based on your score.

Unfortunately, real life is not quite like that. It seems that my work is like those pesky little moles. Each time I attack one of my piles of work, another one or two pops up and demands my immediate attention. Once again, despite my best planning, I’m getting backed up as we head into the holiday season. We’ve got just another 2-3 weeks before the album companies start applying the holiday deadlines. Meanwhile, I don’t sleep and I keep falling farther and farther behind. Oh those pesky moles!

As soon as I started getting caught up on my albums, I fell behind with proof books. Catch up on those and then I fall behind on my postings, phone calls and e-mails. Well you get the idea. I thought I would have a 3 week lull without any events to allow me to catch up. As luck would have it, over the last couple of weeks, I’ve had Strep (along with the rest of the household), a pyogenic granuloma which required a surgical consult and something I can’t pronounce let alone spell. Anyway here is the attempt, Epiditimitis which required had me in such pain, I needed to see a Dr. — Stat. As it was, I was in bed from Friday night until Sunday morning.

Although Friday night, I did attend Meghan’s Consecration ceremony. She is getting to be such the little lady. I’m not sure who’s smile was bigger, hers as she was getting consecrated or mine as I watched her with pride. Nana and Poppa drove in from Milwaukee to watch Meghan. Despite being told I should take it easy, there was no way I was going to miss my daughter’s Consecration. This is the reason, I’m a photographer. To be able to set my own hours to be with my kids when it is important to them.

The next day, the in-laws all met to celebrate Sheryl’s birthday. Happy birthday! I’m told they had fun. I slept through it at home.

So anyway, the next two weeks will be filled with whacking moles and trying to catch up before the moles take over.

Time Flies

Where does the time go. It seems like each day flys by and is over before I know it. Can it be nearly two weeks since I last updated the blog? I didn’t mean for it to be so long but Michah, Mathew and Meghan do take up a lot of the time. Everytime I turn around, one of the three demands my attention.

You would think there would be a repite once the kids go to sleep. Nooooo, that’s not the case. First there is getting the kids into bed. We try for 8:00 PM but most nights it is a little later. Meghan usually falls asleep pretty fast. Meanwhile once she is sleeping, Mathew, yells “I have a stinky” So time to change his diaper. Someday he will be potty trained but he is resisting all of our efforts. So finally Mathew is changed but now he needs to sample all of the beds and may even try to watch tv with Sheryl.

Somewhere during all of this Michah wakes up and demands to be fed, burped, and diapered. If we are lucky Mathew will drop off somewhere around 11:00. I’ve tried to get him to take shorter naps but he still manages to stay up late. Now that Mathew is asleep, Michah has settled, I get a couple of things done. But soon Michah is crying again. Only this time he wakes Meghan. Now I have to resettle her. Before I know it the night is over and it is time for me to drop off. There is still so much to get done and so little time. It is no wonder that my head drops around 5:00 PM for a 30 minute cat nap.

On another front, I have been informed by the Chicago Jewish News that they will be publishing 3 of my photos from a wedding I photographed earlier this month. It seems they are doing a story on the wedding because it was the first Jewish wedding at Starved Rock State Park in recent memory. So anyway, they will be using some of my photos to accompany the story.

I also heard from the Chicago Wedding Guide that they wanted to publish 5 of my photos. Rather than paying a stock agency for photos for their magazine, they contact photographers and ask for submissions. I submitted nearly 50 photos and they picked 5. I was also told that depending on the layout they may want to use some additional photos. So all in all it was quite a day.

Sleepless

I’m sorry I have not had the chance to update the blog as much as I previously did. There is just so much to do and so little time to do it. Michah is keeping us awake all night long. Yesterday, I was working on some photos and had to close my eyes for a moment. Next thing I knew….. it was 30 minutes later!!!! I know this exhaustion will pass in a year or so. I hope I can keep going until then.

I have also fallen a little behind with the work from MMP. I just finished color correcting Arianna and Tony’s wedding from July 29. I still need to design the album. I also photographed Courtney and Jim’s wedding last weekend and I have another wedding coming up. So please understand if you do not see any photos posted.

Finally, if there was not enough to keep me busy, I am attending a four day wedding photographer’s workshop. Of all the places in the US to hold the conference, it is being held 10 minutes from my home. With the caliber of speakers, I could not resist attending. If this had been anywhere else in the US, I would not have gone. During my conference, my niece, Samantha, is staying with us to help with the kids. It turns out she likes photography. Maybe in a year or two, she will work for me. Anyway, that’s all for now.

Outpouring of Support

By now you all know Sheryl and I are expecting our third child any day now. At our last Dr.’s appointment, the Dr. said our son was measuring about 2 weeks ahead of schedule. It is very likely he will be born before his due date of August 7. Mathew followed the same growth pattern and was also born early. This news was not a big surprise to me. The Dr. wants Sheryl to complete 37 weeks of pregnancy before the baby is born. That would be Monday July 17. It basically means the baby could arrive at any moment now.

Meanwhile, I am scheduled to photograph Michelle and Ryan’s wedding on Saturday. The photographer who had previously told me he would be my backup, decided to take another booking. I was panicked. If I have a backup photographer, the baby will wait. With my luck, without a backup available, it is 100% certain my new son will decide to arrive at the worst possible time, on Saturday during the wedding!

I put the word out via several of my wedding photography networks. I received many replies from photographers. Some were available and others were not but they were calling their photographer friends on my behalf to find somebody to assist me. What an outpouring of support! This is one of the benefits I receive as a member of my professional associations. While you hope to never need the help of your fellow photographers, it is nice to know they are there when you are in a bind.

During the week, I have been busy working on several projects. I completed the first draft of Maureen and Jason’s wedding album. They are going to have a great heirloom to show their kids and grand kids about the day they got married.

Collage of wedding photos as seen in the album
Wedding Photo collage for Maureen and Jason's Wedding Album
Collage of wedding photgraphs as seen in the wedding album

On Sunday, I photographed the engagement session for Cheryl and Mark. They are getting married on September 9. We had a lot of fun at Twin Lakes in Palatine during their engagement session. It was a chance to get to know these folks a little better. Mark has a great sense of humor and I can’t wait to join them on their wedding day.

Cheryl and Mark's Engagement Photo taken at Twin Lakes

Next, as a special gift for Meghan’s Kindergarten teacher, I created a 22 page book chronicling Meghan’s first year of school in photos. I started at the first day of school and followed her through the year. We concluded on report card day. Here are some of spreads from Miss Sullivan’s remembrance book.

Event photo collage for an album
Album collage with event photographs
Album photo collage with photos taken at Brookfield Zoo

First Job Offer Tendered

Everytime I attend a bridal show, it is the same old problem. Will Sheryl work the booth with me? Who else can I get to share the responsibilities of watching the booth and talking to prospective clients? Over the years, we’ve had some people who have helped out who were really good and other times they were not so good.

I kept thinking that it would be nice to find somebody who almost instinctively knew how to talk to prospective clients. Somebody who knows about open ended questions, proper body posture and the like. Basically somebody who knows the Disney Experience and share that excitement about wedding photography with a bride.

Over the years, I’ve lost touch with most of the castmembers I used to work with at the Oakbrook Disney Store. Furthermore, working with me at bridal shows is not a steady income but rather a way to provide a little extra cash around show season. A couple of weeks ago, I found this person but didn’t realize it. She is a former castmember. As I was driving to her house tonight to drop off a photo, I realized she was the answer to my problem.

When I arrived, my mind was made up, as part of the conversation, I tendered her a job offer. It should work out great with her other job. I’m not going to say any more until she decides if she accepts my offer. Either way, I’m excited to be expanding Magical Moments Photography by taking steps to add employees.

My New Business Card

For weeks, no make that months, I’ve known I needed new business cards. However, I had been struggling and pondering the design. Nothing I tried seemed to work. I looked at many other business cards. I kept putting the project off. This morning I was visiting Indian Lakes where I photographed Jenna and Chris’ wedding a couple of weeks ago.

Once again I was asked for business cards but didn’t have many to give. I knew I needed to get new business cards but was dreading the design task. Then this afternoon BAM! An idea hit me out a clear blue sky. After about an hours worth of work, here’s what inspired me.

Magical Moments Photography's new business card from Jenna and Chris' Wedding Photo

May flowers bring June Brides

The last 6 months of 2006 look to keep me really busy. As you know on the personal front, Sheryl and I are expecting our third child, a boy, August 7. If he follows in his siblings footsteps he will be born on-time (Meghan) or a couple of weeks early (Mathew). If that is not enough to keep me busy, I have 15 weddings booked in 5 months with a few weeks off in early August for my son’s birth.

Now some of you may wonder what a photographer does when faced with the possibility of a personal life event when a wedding is scheduled. First, once I knew Sheyrl and I were expecting, I stopped booking weddings around her due date. Unfortunately, some weddings were booked almost a year in advanced, before we discovered Sheryl was pregnant. So, I have arranged for another fully qualified professional wedding photographer to assist me at my previously booked late July weddings. Should Sheryl go into labor while I’m at a wedding, I will turn the primary responsibilities over to the other photographer and goto the hospital. Otherwise, my clients will luck out and receive an extra professional photographer at no charge to them. See, I’ve got it all covered!

In the meantime, 2007 looks like a busier year than 2006. My bookings are already ahead of any previous years’ booking pace. So far this June, I’ve booked 3 weddings, been informed 2 more signed agreements are being sent to me and I will be meeting with several more potential clients in the next 2 weeks. So with that I would like to welcome as new Magical Moments Photography clients:

Cheryl and Mark
Laura and Brian
Sarah and Jeremy

Mother’s Day

Once again it is Mother’s day. The day when dads do all the work and moms get to rest. Well, rest as much as the kids will let her. I tried to let her sleep late this morning but Mathew was in our bedroom earlier than normal, 6:00 AM. Somehow, Sheryl convinced him to go back to sleep. Then Meghan arrived. She too went back to bed until her alarm went off at 8:10 for Sunday School.

I took her to Sunday school and then we were off to have brunch with the Milwaukee half of our family. One of the best things about being a professional photographer is having a ready supply of gifts available. Both Moms and Grandmas love new photos of the kids. Over the last couple of days, I took some new photos of Meghan and Mathew to give to Sheryl and her Mom as Mother’s day gifts. Here are the photos:

Personal Photograph
Personal Photograph of the kids

As you can expect the gifts were warmly received. Don’t the kids look so sweet when they are almost asleep or sleeping? I put Sheryl’s in the hall frames when she was out and she was surprised when she saw them. Meanwhile, I wrapped my mother-in-law’s photos in a box for her to open at brunch. I also gave everybody wallet sized prints so they could show everybody.

On a sad note, this is the second Mother’s day since my mom passed away. There are still times, like today, when she’s especially missed. I’m sorry Mathew never really got a chance to meet her and the baby we’re expecting will never get to know her. We’ve decide to honor my mom by naming our son (expected arrival 8/7/6) after my mom. Now we just need to find a name. Any suggestions?

I’ve also been working on a new promotional slide show for Magical Moments. It can be viewed at http://www.photodex.com/sharing/viewshow.html?fl=2593303&alb=0. Just so you know, you may be asked to install the Photodex Presenter Plug-in. It’s ok to do so. The show runs about 10 minutes. Take a look and let me know what you think.

Certified Professional Wedding Photographer

It arrived! I’m now a certified professional wedding photographer. Just like accountants can become certified, so can professional photographers. In this day and age of fly by night wedding photographers and people who just decide to become a wedding photographer without any training, it is one way for the consumer to know they are hiring a properly trained professional.

Last year at the national Professional Photographers of America of convention, I took a certification test. This test is administered by the same folks who give the bar exam and the CPA exam, among others. For me, passing the test was the easy part. The tough part is submitting photos from 20 events over the last two years to be judged by a group of photography experts. After all of that, I became a Certified Professional Photographer.

The Wedding endorsement is like a doctor specializing in a specific branch of medicine such as heart surgery or internal medicine. To earn the Wedding endorsement, I needed to submit photos from another 10 events over the last year to be judged by the photography jury. I understand a higher standard is used. Finally, unlike a college degree that once it is earned you keep it forever, the Certified Professional Wedding Photographer must take continuing education classes each year to maintain the certification/endorsement status. Most importantly the Certification commission is an independent body where consumers can verify the status of the certified photographer.

Open Dates

I just received word from one of my clients that unfortunately the wedding is off. I’d like to be the nice guy. So even though my agreement says “no refunds”, should I manage to rebook a wedding for that weekend for the same or more expensive package than had previously been booked, I’ll provide a refund minus the administrative costs. Therefore, if you or anybody you know is still looking for a wedding photographer for Memorial Day weekend (May 26-29), please contact me.

Other upcoming 2006 weekends which I still have available are:

May 12-14
June 9-11
June 16-18
July 21-23

As these dates are fast approaching, a special gift will be given to the people who book those dates.